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Short Tag Line:
blind swinging couple of cuddle monsters
I/We are looking for
Blind swinging couple seeks others with visual impairment (metaphorically speaking)
We're blind to all those trivial hangups so many folks seem to have about swinging partners - and, we slept through chemistry class. Let's just get together, nice and friendly like, be happy and fuck each other's brains out because it's fun. If you look cute (and of course you do) that's all the better, but it's not a requirement. Use your distinctiveness and special talents to your advantage and give us as good of a time as we are wanting to give yall.
So, what are we really looking for in playmates?
* Communication - TALK sexy and give us FEEDBACK on your preferences.
* Cooperation - have and give a good time because you WANT TO.
* Confidence - use your skills ASSERTIVELY and take our breath away.
* Creative - EXPLORE, experiment and show-off on us, we dare ya!
(don't leave marks that last more than a day or two)
* Cleanliness - we'll all have more fun.
* Candor - there's no need to hide anything, let's be honest with each other.
(I'm not your parole officer ;-)
* Comedy - let's laugh when it feels good.
* Courtesy - disrespect is unforgivable.
The "interview" simply becomes a quick measure of mutual trust and enthusiasm. Every decision to decline an offer for play has been based on attitudes or sexual preferences not being compatible (well, there was one time I had gas and was too embarrassed to play).
Most of our playtimes have been at house parties where we feel comfortable flirting with friendly folks and we can each find a fun playmate without the necessity of cross-couple compatibility (four way chemistry). We both want to play with whomever we choose. Separate rooms or same makes no difference and soft swing or full swap just depends on how we feel at the moment.
We're interested in exploring more group-sex opportunities.
Describe Yourself:
We're not really "beginners" anymore, maybe "novices" would be a better description. We've had several dozen exciting encounters and feel good about sharing our sexuality with other fun and friendly folks. We're happy with whatever level of play the mood of the moment happens to support. We can enjoy a comfortable erotic massage, steamy hot full swap sex, or just about anything in between. We generally like our sex slow and comfortable, start with a massage as we get to know each other's preferences and then progress into more intimate activities. If we concentrate on preferences, we shouldn't get anywhere close to anyone's boundaries.
She is confidently and subtly sensuous and as soft-spoken as a southern lady should be (the governor's favorite niece). Read the romance novel in her sexy eyes and watch her make your blood boil with her body language one delicious tease at a time. Tender, confident, pampering touches pluck a bouquet of smiles from her libido and unleash a tantristically passionate energy you'll likely enjoy. She's becoming a popular attraction at the parties we frequent. (Swinging has shown me in a way I couldn't have realized otherwise, what a LUCKY man I am.)
He's a wordy romantic barbarian and has an appetite for consuming the lustful souls of playful, attractive women,,, nibble by nibble. Slap his hand if he gets fresh too quickly - slap his ass if he's too slow. Sexy talk during playtime always makes him smile.
We've been married 33 wonderful years and absolutely crazy in love with each other. She makes the best hand-crafted chocolate candies in town and he roasts his own exotic coffee blends in his home-made coffee roaster. Hell, that's a good start on a fun party; let's give it a shimmy-shake and kick it up a notch together...
We're 420 friendly, smoke cigarettes and an occasional cigar. We both enjoy a nice glass of wine and he's fond of sipping full-flavored island rum.
We each retain the individual right to say "no" at any time - without regard for anything that might have happened in the past or anything previously understood. It wont "hurt our feelings" when you tell us you prefer to NOT do something.
Our profile photo is current as of May 2007.
Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
We're not actively looking for singles (male or female) right now. We're finding couple play to be very exciting while we maintain a mild curiosity toward singles. If you're an experienced single wanting to play with us, we'd rather meet at a small house party - send us an invitation and introduce us to the host(s). [Form letters and pick-up lines will get you blocked immediately with no response from us.]
[current events]
We've been swinging several years now, and we've really enjoyed the house parties we've attended - there's something especially exciting about party sex. We love the musty smell of energetic sex oozing from each bedroom and seeing big smiles on everyone's faces. And a buncha naked bodies - that's pretty cool too. We've found a few couples we're starting to think of as friends and the sex DOES get better. We don't need to be friends first, but we do prefer friendly people.
What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
Swinging is not a big priority in our lives. We do it for occasional fun (three or four times a year). We have kids and grandkids that visit frequently and our youngest still lives at home (she can't take a hint). We stay busy with our careers and hobbies which makes scheduling playtime something of a juggling act - let's work together on the timeline.
Our purpose in swinging is to add fun and sexual excitement to our lives and hopefully to other people’s lives as well. We want to look back one day, after we retire from swinging, and be able to say each swinging encounter influenced us in a positive way and collectively they had been a rewarding part of our social interaction.
We believe one of the keys to successful swinging is mutual respect - toward everyone involved (even the folks we choose to not play with). We appreciate when we're with someone else's spouse, we're with someone special. We're not "using" other people for our sexual jollies. All of us are participating in a respectful sexual adventure for the evening with the intention of especially enjoying that rekindled sexual energy later with our spouse.
We generally prefer "first time meets" to be at house parties. We may not be as picky about playmates as some folks we've seen, but we do have our standards and preferences. If we decide to get to know each other better at the party, that's great. If not, we each have plenty of other opportunities for a fun time, and maybe we can connect at a future party. Personality and character are way more important than physical appearance.
So, yeah, this is a long profile or resumé or whatever ya wanna call it. But that's OK, 'cause the kind of folks we wanna meet are the ones that would be open and candid like this with their preferences and fantasies. We've been open to the point of being long-winded.... and now,,,, [insert drum-roll] the floor is yours (whatcha gonna do with it???)
Catch our attention with your preferences rather than your rules and boundaries.
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Bruce_Melissa
